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I have a question, why do these men have to go to other country for a woman
What's wrong with the women that are here? why do you have to travel so far away to get a woman? and how come they don't have websites for females? maybe we don't like the men that are here and we can go and find a man in another county
just a simple question
By sweetg30 on Dec 14, 2006, 13:49 in Friendly Talkzone.
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ColombianoGringo (Moderator) (Trustee board) (☼Travelguide writer) says on Dec 14, 2006, 14:34: Don't generalize I thought you had already addressed this topic in another thread. I'm so hip, I have difficulty seeing over my pelvis. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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njtea5 says on Dec 14, 2006, 15:05: What does it matter.. Last time I checked there was plenty of American Men married to American Women... Its true what is it to you where some one finds their wife.. Facts are Facts Colombian Women are hotter and take better care of thier men... Like mi mama!!! Love you mommy...
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ColombianoGringo (Moderator) (Trustee board) (☼Travelguide writer) says on Dec 14, 2006, 15:10: How long have you been in How long have you been in Houston? I'm so hip, I have difficulty seeing over my pelvis. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jay1234 says on Dec 14, 2006, 16:31: I am guessing it is the money I imagine that if there was money to be made from a gringa looking for love in Latin America website, then there would be some...or thousands. No money to be made = no websites. I wonder how the percentages of American women looking overseas vs. men stacks up. I am (again) guessing it is disproportionately males who look overseas. I guess you could start your own site and find out...
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famsearch says on Dec 14, 2006, 16:52: all i know... ...is that i may be one of the rare ones, i didn't go looking, it just happened. =) dan 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 14, 2006, 17:12: I think we're trying to avoid women like you,... sweetg. (Except of course,....for strobers.)(But don't make him a sandwich; make him an arepa con queso!) nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 14, 2006, 17:18: We go to Colombia, because.... you know, sometimes you just have to get out of the house ;) nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 14, 2006, 17:50: I thought the topic of US vs Colombian women was taboo!!?? Every time on PBH i made comments including about 100 ways the Colombiana is better than the US variety, it gets **deleted**.....maybe we can get a "ruling" from a moderator.....i am sure that some interesting "input" would be forthcoming....i can only speak for the local California women, but i believe Golddigging 101 is taught at a very early age, maybe 10 or 12 years of age????? =) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 1 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 14, 2006, 17:59: my feelings are so hurt You're trying to avoid women like me? well I was born and raised in Barranquilla-Colombia until the age of 19, that's when I came here, So I guess I'm damaged good lol, why you get so agitated i just asked a simple question because I want to find out what's so especial about these ladies. Anyway I cook only when I feel like it and today it's not my husbands lucky day, maybe next time. I'm a bad evil woman and I think you have more time in your hands then I do, why you keep on answering? just ignore me
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sweetg30 says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:02: How about I make you a sandwich but with special ingredients, would you like that?
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TioJoe says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:16: Divorce When I married 15 years ago civil divorce was not allowed in Colombia only separation. This was a major consideration since a very common refrain from many american women I dated was "If it doesn't work out we could always get a divorce". The inequality to dissolve a marriage in the USA was also a painfull recent reminder of why ANY american wife was not an option. SweetG - I met my wife the old fashioned way before the websites but there is a simple answer to your question why there are no websites offering american women as foreign brides. The truth is in the foreign countries I have visited american women are just not held in very high regard. Sorry gentlemen -- civil divorce is now allowed in Colombia -- they changed the constitution right after I married so be nice.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:27: Shit, TJ, the american woman is regarded the same in the US... IMVHO......=) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Swinn88 says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:31: SweetG because no one else wants to answer your question and they prefer to leave tire tracks across your body because you offended them(I don't know how but i'm used to it at PBH now). There is nothing wrong with the women where you are, and far less men seek women in other places than you may think. Most people at PBH I believe, but i'm not sure have come upon there significant others in the normal way. Some have visited Colombia for whatever reason and loved it. If you love a place you are bound to love it's people. As for hotness yes there are some very hot colombians however I have seen some very ugly ones also(no one at this site would ever admit to that statement). Generally speaking I personally can't say that colombians are hotter nor Americans hotter because I have met some very hot!! Hotties in both places(and no! the Hotties here were not Colombians). Sometimes you venture off. It's kind of like asking a white girl why she's with a black guy. Unless they have very strong feelings against it then it is quite possible that they can fall for a guy, be he from Africa, colombia, canada or wherever. I personally welcome all types of women be they a different color, ethnicity, or country. As far as websites for women seeking men i'm sure there is something out there. You just have to look. Dating services are all over the Net in all languages. PBH members give people a break and stop ganging up on them. It's the internet for goodness sake and written words very often are misunderstood. I dont's think SweetG meant to offend anyone.
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aztec says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:35: Simple... ...the Colombian people are on average the most beautiful on earth. On the other side of the mirror one would find the beautiful Scandinavian people.
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Swinn88 says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:36: ok!
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Swinn88 says on Dec 14, 2006, 18:38: Some hotties but I wouldnt say on average they are the hottest.
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Plato says on Dec 14, 2006, 19:49: It sounds like a troll question to me - sweetg30's. The hottest places in hell are reserved for those [liberals] who, in time of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.--Dante Alighieri, (1265-1321) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 14, 2006, 19:49: misconception People think that ;the bottom of the barrel or guys who can't get nothing in the EE UU are the reason we go to Colombia I THINK NOT, I think u have to make good money to even afford to go there on a regular basis, thereby if u have money lets face it women are not really a problem, I go there because it's a challange for one thing, the women are not a shame of thier sexaulity, they r not afraid to be women they r wild unspoiled and agressive in bed, a Agentina asked me why do i waste my time going to Colombia, for the record, I WANT TO GO TO COLOMBIA not because i have to,it's my life and and i don't care about all the put downs , nothing against u sweet30 it's just people seem to worry about it,for the record I like women in thier mid 30"s I know a Colombiana that is 34 she could compete in the "hottest girl on the planet" she may not win but she will in the five lol, so don't take offense sweet30 it's just what we love to do and go and that's all there is to it, I think Colombiana r like a fine wine the older they get the better they taste. tan buenisima!!!!!!! anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 14, 2006, 20:10: Strobers Yeah sit down and wait for it, and I don't care if I u forgive me or not. pa lo que a mi me importa
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www.calirentals.net (☼Travelguide writer) says on Dec 14, 2006, 22:46: http://www.husbands.com/ Bien Pueda! http://www.calirentals.net/ 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 14, 2006, 23:01: organic mayonaise. ???? strobers! You're killin' me, dude! nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 14, 2006, 23:10: ELCHANTAJISTA! My sentiments, exactly! I couldn't have said it better. (I knew if I waited long enough, someone would re-iterate my thoughts in writing.) I jus didn't expect it to be a freakin COON-ASS ;) nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 14, 2006, 23:14: "I live under a bridge in Queens, N.Y.' C?... Sweetg30 = Elmo. He's always claiming to be livin under a bridge. Miami, Queens.... do they have any bridges in Barranquilla? nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 05:52: How about a pic, Sweetg? Then we'll tell you how sweet you really are. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 05:56: No Galecito, They don't have any bridges in barranquilla or Colombia, poor us, that's why I moved over here so I could live under a bridge, lol!smarta** and I'm not elmo i wish i could talk to him, too bad you guys couldn't deal with him. i read some of his stuff and it was pretty darn funny. Some of you guys sometimes take things too personally
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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 05:59: utopiacowboy no I don't give pic's to people i don't know My dating days are over, That was then and I used to have many pic's in my profile and used to got a lot a lot of responses, until my americanized beautiful a** met my lovely husband, he is a real man and knows how to deal with my sweet self.
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:00: Elmo was run off by the feminazis in their never-ending attempts to censor free expression. He has gone underground and is leading the fight for freedom from tyranny and overflowing toilets. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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gringolondinense says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:25: We have to join forces with our friends, to fight the detergents. We must bring an end to evil and violins.
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JR says on Dec 15, 2006, 11:27: Sweet G 30 here's your answer: Recently a "Husband Super Store" opened in the USA where women could go to choose a husband from among many men. It was laid out over five floors, with the men increasing in positive attributes as you ascended.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 15, 2006, 11:36: JR,,that joke is making the email rounds again....=) i got it last week for the umpteenth time....but very true! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Boatygringo says on Dec 15, 2006, 12:51: Question Being kind of aged impaired if I didn't go to Colombia I would't be able to enjoy the company of 20 something year old chicas. Boatygringo Boatygringo 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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alleycat says on Dec 15, 2006, 13:07: it's usually because they can get a more attractive woman in colombia. not always but this is the main reason. supply and demand. the women who they desire in the u.s. don't find most of these guys very attractive. we'll consider 3 factors in a man's attractiveness; looks, personality, and money. let's also throw in age. there's a fairly strong cultural bias in the u.s. for men and women to connect with someone around their own age. most hot 20 something women won't even consider seriously hanging with someone twice their age. a 55 year old guy can go to colombia and connect with someone half his age. whether it works when they come back is another matter but at least he'll delude himself into thinking it will work. but discrepancies in attractiveness usually don't work. how many couples do you really see in everyday life where one partner is unattractive and the other a stunner? men go to colombia believing they can do better.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 15, 2006, 13:17: And that is your business and no one elses, BG! so continue living your life as you want to live it...hell, alleycat, in the Golddigging Capital of California, to a 20-something girl here, a 30 year old man is over the hill!!! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:26: Deluded Alleycat you have truely made some valid points regarding money, looks and personality when us old men date young american women with age often being the determining factor. I found the same priorities in Colombia on my first visit but reversed in importance personality, looks and money with age not the deal breaker it is in the USA. I may have been one of those unattractive gentlemen that married a "hot 20 something woman" half his age that you have casually destined to fail. Still suffering the consequence of delusional passion as she kisses my bald head after these many years and yes I know many other similar "old is ugly" men equally as happy.
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:28: I'm 85 and still quite happy with the high-quality inflatable doll (Monica Belluci model) that I imported. I forget what I'm supposed to do with her but she makes a nice squeaky sound when I rub her. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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timeforachangeofscenery says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:47: Stop trying to understand me! To all the overly sensitive, indignant clowns who turn bright red every time some bored house-wife with too much spare time and unsupervised access to a p.c. questions one of their life choices, listen up.
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:53: If she's that bored maybe she could help me with my Pre-Cal. I wonder if she's a MILF? Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Dec 15, 2006, 15:02: I THINK I can also answer that question There's a lot of guys that were caught in the time warp. With the empowerment of the modern woman in all "western" societies our men found out that they had had the rug pulled out from under their feet. Everything that they had been taught to believe in suddenly didn't make sense. They lost the sense of purpose, the sense of what it takes being a man since the values that they were taught by their fathers and mothers were not valid any longer. It wasn't a good thing any longer to be the protector, the breadwinner, the support and the head of the family; the new male role model was the equal male, the partner, the friend, the soul mate. This became too much of a challenge for some men, The ones who have no problem with the new set of values are the sons of my generation; they are in their twenties and getting into their thirties now and have no problem with the equal, empowered woman as their partner. They have been raised up to be equal and think of women on equal terms. A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 15:05: Was Ruth of the Bible a MILF? If she was, then, yeah, I could handle that. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Dec 15, 2006, 15:11: sorry, UC? don't know what you mean. I not quite as slick as you. A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 15:42: Cheers Desi Drinking anchient age bourbon as I try to remember how old I am. Your point was expressed well however do you truely believe all us elderly gents are equality challenged? I am retired and my colombian wife has a carreer as an occupational therapist in Florida. She lovingly refers to me as her lifetime pension check while I think of her as my big paycheck. Seeking old fashioned values is a stretch in our relationship -- role reversal -- I clean the house and cook now however I did draw the line when she asked me to meet her at the front door after a hard day at the office butt naked and in high heels. We old men still have a little pride.
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FredGarvin says on Dec 15, 2006, 15:51: OMG... "Seeking old fashioned values is a stretch in our relationship -- role reversal -- I clean the house and cook now however I did draw the line when she asked me to meet her at the front door after a hard day at the office butt naked and in high heels. We old men still have a little pride."
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Dec 15, 2006, 15:55: by no means, tio the great majority of the men of my generation have been able to adapt to the change. I do not wish to take anything away from you, least of all your pride. There are a few who have had a hard time accepting women as their partners, but they are a minority and I have no quarrel with anybody. To all you happily married Colombian/Gringo couples out there, A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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cam0940 says on Dec 15, 2006, 17:07: That's a nice, academic analysis Desi. Of course, it's rhetoric. Even though you were critical of overzealous feminists, you are still basically attributing the phenomenon to men who can't handle change... aren't comfortable with progession... in other words, aren't comfortable in a "less dominant" role in the relationship... which misses the point entirely.
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aztec says on Dec 15, 2006, 17:57: cam0940, find myself agreeing... ...again with you.
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bamapits3 says on Dec 15, 2006, 18:40: Please can I say something I have not met one guy under 30 years old in medellin, I cant speak for other places, but if you want my personal opinion, there were only a few of these guys that out of many americans that I met down there that I would even want to be seen with. The truth and the whole truth, is they cant get any play back home so they go to a country where woman like knowing security is there. I am 20 years and and because Of the job I have as of now in the middle east my vacations have allowed me to travel the world. Why do you think all these guys arent in France/Italy.......Oh ya its cause they dont like european woman, they like spanish woman, thats crap, its cause european woman have taste and wont just mess with you because your american and there is no way that they could get a 20 year old when they are 40-50 years old........I am ready to hear what everyone has to say, because if you think different your a damn lie.....Remember I said there are a few guys who can do it in miami, europe, and south america, but all the others ones think they supposed millionaire status that they have will control these lil girls minds....get real....
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aztec says on Dec 15, 2006, 19:16: "your a damn lie", bamapits3.... ...my, my one can always tell when a worldly, sophisticated and intellectual mature person shows up. With so much life experience to share with the down trodden folks.
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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 19:22: Bamapits They advertise it as a sex tour to the men with a cheap flight to Colombia -- 10 girls to every guy in Medellin and Cali -- Sadly that is the ratio when they visit those areas. Most of these self professed millionaires could not buy dinner or a ticket to Europe without plastic. Many american "GENTLE MEN" of all ages visit your country on a different pretext. We are all not what you perceive. In general I agree with your post but you have a narrow view of the issue however your obsevation obviously comes with experience.
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elchantajista says on Dec 15, 2006, 19:38: u sound like a broken record BAM i'VE see a few guys that fit what u r talking about but most guy that go to Colombia, i think are just normal guys that LIKE Colombiana, and give your self a break,u need one, your cynical out look is rather odd cause one day u will be that older hombre and some young buck will be talking about u like u talking right now ,granted younger guys have it going on more than older guys but your disrespect will come back on u later on in life when u become a old hombre, get over the cynical " i'm better than u cause I'm younger" out look on life. my job takes me all over the wold also lived in different countries, i chose Colombia because i speak spanish if i spoke french or italian or german i'll probabaly choose them and they r American that live in euro, besides it's the chica that we go to see not somebody like u anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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cam0940 says on Dec 15, 2006, 19:57: Over and over again, men have stated that they don't like what's available in their immediate area (mine being Los Angeles).
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elchantajista says on Dec 15, 2006, 20:15: Good post Cam0940 for me it's all about living on the edge and going to Colombia u can really test your self; go out your comfort zone, u know u alive after that every day routine of work lol , but it's a great country and great people and regardless what some people say we go cause we want to; not cause we have few choices, i think one of Colombia draw is it's danger and of course it's beauty that's a combo that's hard to beat anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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alleycat says on Dec 15, 2006, 20:19: there does seem to be many of these guys who head south so they can try to hook up with a more passive and submissive ideal. american women simply don't need men the way they used to. this economic liberation, like desideria says, leaves these men angry and confused. but are colombian women really any different? my experience says no. not in this respect anyway. most women from every country i've visited are in fact more family oriented than american women but this can be traced to the extreme individualism that characterizes the u.s. and not some magical quality of a foreigner. once you scratch the surface of this intense family orientation the truth is it can be suffocating
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Miguel says on Dec 15, 2006, 20:26: Oye Don't give up your day jobs. Colombian experts you are not! "There is nothing lower than the human race...except for the French." - Mark Twain 1878-79 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 20:42: Alleycat I am not confused -- again we say and I twice -- American women are in denial. Many american men do not like american women -- mind if I use your post as an example?
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cam0940 says on Dec 15, 2006, 20:43: Alleycat, where do you get that from?
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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 21:12: Cam You said it better than I ever could -- my last word on this thread.
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Crazy4Cali says on Dec 15, 2006, 22:25: Gosh, that'll teach me to show up to the party late... Cam summed it up so well that if anyone still has a question, they clearly weren't paying attention.
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Swinn88 says on Dec 15, 2006, 22:26: At the risk of sounding like an idiot (and I often do sound like one) I'd like to share a little something. My wife once asked me why do I love her and why am I with her. I told her simply...Because with you I truly feel like a man with a real woman. Let me explain. Just like Cam, It felt good, It was easy, no stress, no competition. She had her role and I had mine and we fit. Not submissive by any means,but she knew her role. I on the other hand treat her like women say they like to be treated, like I like to treat women, and she accepts that. we disagree, and argue and get mad sometimes and it doesn't matter. great gal she is. I let her be a true woman and she lets me be a true man.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 15, 2006, 22:38: This is it in a nutshell........ "The facts are the "modern" woman as defined by the feminist is being rejected by a whole generation of men." aztec..... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 15, 2006, 23:25: Desi said: "...men who go to countries where they hope to find good old fifties-type of housewifely..." nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 15, 2006, 23:25: nor am I exactly sure how that double post happened. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 15, 2006, 23:38: Who defines happiness? I have been following along, trying to understand why a whole lot of philosophical arguments are being set forth to justify a man's conduct. He does not owe an explanation to anyone. If an American man decides, for whatever reason, that a woman from a different culture, with different values, that happens to live in a foreign country is the woman that he so desires, wherein exists the problem?
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 15, 2006, 23:54: Rather than take advantage of an oppurtunity to "enlighten" an apparent critic (SWG30) who simply asked a question, most posters here want to burn her at the stake like Joan of Arc....why the hostilities? if the OP had been a man posting the same question, you can bet your bottom dollar that the agression would not have occurred....i say just take the opportunity to turn a "unbeliever" into a "believer", and the OP probably would have a different outlook after hearing so many of the "testimonials" from the Happy Camper Club of PBH men who are living their lives as life was meant to be. RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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aztec says on Dec 16, 2006, 05:08: Supplementary information from todays El Tiempo. Not directly on topic but might provide greater insight. Of course researchers would want to know the validity and reliability of the research design.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 06:12: I read all of your comments And I must say that some of you guys sound like you're looking for a 1950's type wife, I guess you can still find that in Colombia or elsewhere but not all Colombian women are that way anymore. So you guys don't like to help your wife with the kids and cleaning around the house? what's wrong with that? my father used/still helps my mom around the house and he's 55 years old so he should be the macho of the house and don't anything around, he used to wake up at night and take care of my brother's and myself when we were sick and he's not my biological father but he like taking care of us, it didn't make him less of a man, in my eyes he is a real man. So what's wrong with a man doing things like that? is just a woman job to clean and take care of the house and family, we can't do the same like you guys and watch tv and go shopping while you take care of the kids, what's so bad about that? Why are you putting American women like the worst animal that men have to deal with. I had my expectations of what I wanted in a husband since I was in Colombia, so American didn't change my way of thinking but i realized you can't enter a marriage expecting things from the other person except from the basic, i expect my husband not to go around with other women. But you guys ecpect a lot from us when it comes to marriage, I never though some men could be like that. For what i read in here before I though you only care to look for a younger wife because the american women didn't like older men and that men would always be men and what else you can expect from men.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 06:45: I don't know mario, my Typical christmas in colombia? all the family together, my typical christmas in american? all the family together,and your point is?
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 06:57: No i didn't mario I know what you guys are saying and I agree with you guys that some women put their career before their family and all the other good points.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 07:26: ok mario Whatever makes you happy, I did mario, is that better?
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 07:32: mario I think you are hungry and need to eat some arepa con huevo o chicharrones, por que ya te estas poniendo medio aburridor muchacho. con que if i did or didn't or if you're happy and now u want to be elmer fudd. Querido necesitas coger aire fresco o hacer algo mijito.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 07:39: yes I did but I'm working on some of my clients files and no you're not bugs bunny my dear,But if that makes you happy, hey go ahead who am i to tell you otherwise.
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Dec 16, 2006, 08:32: I'm not trying to force anybody justify anything (Gomezman); I was just trying to answer sweetg30's question as I understand it. That's not something I read in some feminist website or magazine, I don't visit those places and have no idea how feminists view these issues. Or liberals, either. I've come to those conclusions I stated in my post after many casual discussions with friends, both female and male and after talking about the this topic to some length with an older brother of mine who's walking that walk, four divorces behind him and the new wives only turn younger and more exotic all the time. We don't even bother to make friends with the new girls any longer, at least during the first three months. A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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cam0940 says on Dec 16, 2006, 08:55: I changed my mind about the post I was going to write. I think I'll follow G5's advice instead.
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webmanco says on Dec 16, 2006, 09:09: Rigth on Men don't need any "Doras" in the house, but a partner for all activities, good and not good. No hay extremo cierto o verdadero, porque los extremos opacan, enruedan, (lavan cerebros) verdades. Yotas 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 16, 2006, 09:10: Desi my dear, my comment was not addressed to you. It was addressed to SweetPea or whatever her name is. I just have a hard time understanding why all these guys who have married Colombian woman have to justify doing so.
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cam0940 says on Dec 16, 2006, 09:31: I will say one last thing, though.
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 16, 2006, 09:40: Include me Cam Yea, that is as hypocritical as it gets. On the other hand, if I had the desire and time, I could provide a laundry list of items illuminate other examples of such hypocracy.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 16, 2006, 09:53: A man is free to choose whomever or whatever type he wants in a woman, and vice versa.....dont like that type of person? find one that you like/want and all is well! =) unless, of course, it is a marriage by arrangement, and not consent...ME? i am still trying to find out if Bill Gates has a sister, ugly or not! hahahahahaha.... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 16, 2006, 11:50: Thanks guys for takin the time to write, but FOR ONCE! I HAVE TO TIP MY HAT TO _____ GOMEZMAN5_______!!!!! nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 16, 2006, 18:22: Isn't there a Troll Bridge in NYC? "Tengo mucha compasión para Sweetg_thirty." nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 18:43: I'm not a doc mario I'm a social worker and we call the people we work for clients, in this case victims of domestic violence ok?
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:06: Ok Mario, are you trying to make yourself happy again? I Do believe that some of you guys are honest people that went to Colombia looking for love and found what you were looking for, If I agree or disagree it doesn't really matter as long as you guys are happy, that's what it counts. I'm not against that, I'm against all the people that treat women like sex objects and disrespect them. But some of you are in your little bubble and can't see beyond that and You're entitle to your opinion as I entitle to my opinion, end of the story.
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goin_south says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:18: end of story? that sounds suspiciously like... El Martillo. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:22: El martillo? no te entiendo pero haya tu, oye tu no tienes nada mejor que hacer, espero que no te hayas pasado todo el dia en la computadora, es muy malo para tus ojos y la falta de ejercico lleva a la obesidad. No quieres terminar como el muchacho de la foto, imaginate eso.
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:25: OK Counselor......Mind if say........ I don't believe you whan you say:
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billyb says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:29: Sweetspot30, maybe Galecito saw how attracted you... were to the obese gentleman in the picture and wanted to have a better shot at you. "All I want to know is where I'm going to die, so I never go there" Unkown (at least to me) wise man. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:37: Eating away.... Bags of Chips, con montanas de queso.. pork roastS!,...beber el ron, with lots and lots of coconut, bananas... Eating away, the kitchen sink... hoping, wishing, waiting... to be her next 'victim'. jeje CheeeezeCake con Queso...jaja nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:39: no mas gymnasio! Espero para ti...con mucho lipo. lol nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:41: I'm not trying to fool you or anybody else The people I work with has nothing to do with this. And I already told you guys about those comments I made before. But you believe what you want and I'm not going to try to convinced you otherwise.
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billyb says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:46: Gale', your efforts might be in vain... but no need to curtail the ron. "All I want to know is where I'm going to die, so I never go there" Unkown (at least to me) wise man. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 16, 2006, 19:59: whining women..... free-flowing mouthes... nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 16, 2006, 20:04: Jeez, is this all it takes to get everyones "panties in a bunch" So friggin easyyyyyy that was!!!!!!! SWG30 must have really struck the right nerve or sore spot with her posts!! how pathetic!!! Some of you clowns are making a mountain out of a molehill....she sure has played some of you, Hook, Line, and Sinker!!!! =) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 16, 2006, 20:09: G...victims of DV are hardly a bunch of whining women..... and to the others: since when did men have the exclusive right to have an opinion, and to express it on PBH or anywhere.....if you disagree with her, then say so in a discussion manner, but the same rules of PBH apply to everyone, no? ..or is it the "Do as I Say, Not as I do" principle? .or is PBH just another mens forum or Good Ol' Boyz Club??...if so, how boring! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 16, 2006, 20:19: Lol...can you post a pic of that mario!?? ...hmmm...carrot cake i have not had that in a while!!!!!!! definitely will tomorrow, though!!! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 17, 2006, 02:58: the fact that We don't have dicussion on why gringas marry hombres from other countries or other races pretty well says it all, we live in a male dominated world, I've crossed the racial lines and anybody else that has, knows the stares and sometimes the fights that can happen from the males that r from her race,I hear from my Mex.friends talk the about Colombiana girls that r from my city that go out with the gringos, I'm invisiable cause i'm consider more spanish that gringo lol; the truth I think, is a percentage of Latinos just don't like to see latinas go out with gringos, same thing can be said of whites and blacks an other races, I see some reports that gringas get married to other races 10 times more that gringos, My sisters married different races so i have no problem with that, just if i want to do it ,nobody should have a problem also anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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podborski says on Dec 17, 2006, 05:45: some of us guys just like to travel and meeting fun, beautiful, intelligent women is part of the experience (hopefully!)
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sweetg30 says on Dec 17, 2006, 06:20: Some of you guys have good points I guess Colombian women don't cheat, they don't have nasty responses for people and they're happy people all the time, that's what you basically just said. Some of you just want to attack me and American women making generalizations based on your personal experiences and your friends. How's that any different from what I did? I'm consider an evil American woman and house wife at the same time,with too much time in my hands by some of you, I'm a slut, some of you wanted my pic, for what purpose I don't know, some of you implied I was jealous, others wanted to know where I live and if I could take a bath in your house.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 17, 2006, 06:25: I totally agree with MC, Now I know "some" you guys don't like to be ask any questions, you just like people to go with the flow and since I'm a female, I'm nobody to be asking questions, I don't have a male reproductive system. But like I said before I don't care I got some honest opinion and a lot of garbage from some of you. I have a better pic of the whole thing.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 17, 2006, 06:29: MC, that's like marie claire one of my favorite magazines, lol. I bet you is one of your favorite too, we can sit together and read the magazine.
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podborski says on Dec 17, 2006, 07:01: sorry sweetg but as someone said earlier on, it's just that your question is kind of pointless. Not to mention thew way you stated it implies that men HAVE to go outside their own country to meet women. That's like the old trick question 'when did you stop beating your wife?' It's a false premise.
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tomass says on Dec 17, 2006, 08:34: Finland was the first to give women the vote and the divorce rate is v high. Couples living together and not marrying and single mothers are all v high.
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esporti says on Dec 17, 2006, 08:59: Colombiana's have what Gringa's don't It's many things, why American Men go to places like Colombia for beautiful latina women. No, it's not because they are desperate. Many men and women love the experience of someone from a different culture. It adds to their life. Colombiana's are classier, not snobby like gringa's. They are down to earth, yet so beautiful whether they are 40 years old or 20 years old. They love to please their man, they take pride in their husband's. The real question is why are American men marrying these selfish, all day pajama wearing, Jerry Springer and Days of Our Lives American Women.
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CtYankee says on Dec 17, 2006, 09:09: Have? You would first have to define "Have," a highly subjective word. Otherwise you could have millions of answers.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 17, 2006, 10:07: Responses to the other questions in the OP??? "and how come they don't have websites for females? maybe we don't like the men that are here and we can go and find a man in another county".. RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 17, 2006, 10:09: I could not resist when i saw this one too: G5 and Mario on that last lawyer thread: RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 17, 2006, 10:26: SweetG30...never read that magazine, but with regards to DV victims, i know most of the legitimate ones are not the whiney type.....my experience (not as an abuser but as the one to put the abuser in jail) has been that the vast majority of males (including gang bangers, parolees, prison gangster, teachers, lawyers, cops, etc..) that i have been involved in their arrests are all Macho when in front of other people, but when they are sitting in the back seat of a patrol car and the reality of their situation hits them, they whine, cry, pout, snivel like little bitches....its so hilarious! like Dr Jekyll and Mr Hydes!!!! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Crazy4Cali says on Dec 17, 2006, 10:46: Well, a study was published that explained one reason Las mujeres latinas son las más fogosas del mundo, según estudio con mayores de 40 años
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jay1234 says on Dec 17, 2006, 12:24: MC The answer to the other question in OP is money. If companies could make any money off of females in NA looking for hombres in other countries, there would be tons of sites. I think it has more to do with gender than country of origin. My thought is that men are more apt to take an active role in finding their mate than women (I know this is a generalization, but I think it holds some merit). It includes going on internet sites, using agencies, and being willing to travel to find a mate. It is also why there is a ton of porn online for heterosexual men, but not so much for heterosexual women (the distinction being that there are pornographic pictures of men out there, just packaged and marketed for those who buy it - gay men). An interesting aside is the question of are immigrants of any country different from non-immigrants? I have read about one idea that says that an immigrant is by nature more out-going, risk-taking than a non-immigrant when there is strong pressure (usually economic) to emmigrate. Raises the issue (wow, this is probably going to be provocative, but heck, whats the fun of PBH if we don't have spirited discussions) is there a more "authentic" Colombiana, the one who stays in Colombia, or the one who moves? And does that change the nature of her to the point where it is like comparing apples and oranges when discussing immigrant/non-immigrant Colombianas?
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 17, 2006, 12:47: i agree with you , jay1234.. it has been my experience, and please note **my experience** for the reading impaired! =)....that when i posed the question to many non-prepago Colombianas of whether or not they would want to move to the US if they married an american or would they prefer to stay in Colombia with their american husband, a significant majority preferred to remain in Colombia with a foreign husband. Most would also admit, though, that if the husband desired to live in his native country, they would go whereever their husband desired. RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 17, 2006, 16:51: June Cleaver? I'd like Donna Reed. I saw those old episodes on Nick at Nite and damm, that babe was hot. Now she was a MILF back before there were MILFs. That's old school, man. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 17, 2006, 16:55: hey esporti Well said !!!!! u can't talk to Gringas at work cause if one day they get mad all they have to do is yell sex harrasment and they get paid no question asked, one inciden i know of a women gets 150,000 dollars because of a small incident, after befriending a group of guys, lots of lonely older gringa women looking for younger guys mostly for one stand why bother with all this bs; when Colombianas offers so much more; beautiful 30/40 yr old women with kids i don't care that are so willing for a good relation, one thing my gringo brothers if u can't speak spanish be true to the game learn it!! anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 17, 2006, 21:49: working on it,...... elchantaj.ista Feliz Navidad en Lafayette? a 'work-in-progress' as they say. But, frankly, I'm a little pissed, because after almost two years, she has about 6 phrases in english mastered. I'm... really piss'd. :) nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 17, 2006, 21:51: UTC... maybe you'd also like the Cleaver Beaver. She's no Salma H., but she's probably better than an inflatable Colombiana. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:16: MC "They are all Macho when in front of other people, but when they are sitting in the back seat of a patrol car and the reality of their situation hits them, they whine, cry, pout, snivel like little bitches...." Yes I know, it's really pathetic but any man that hits a women in my eyes it's not a man, just garbage. Thanks to my mom that taught me very early that nobody has the right to hit me or put me down, with all the DV going on she was scared I might meet one of these garbage later on in life. There's a lot of garbage in the USA and everywhere else, including Colombia.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:19: funny galecito Yo no voy al gym por que necesito lipo, solo para no necesitarla.Pero como ya me estoy poniendo vieja tengo que prestar atencion.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:22: MC"is there a more "authentic" Colombiana, the one who stays in Colombia, or the one who moves?" I consider myself a very "authentic" colombiana and very proud of my linda Colombian.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:24: C4C"Well, a study was published that explained one reason
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tomass says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:30: and its a well known fact sweetass that countless millions of Irish men and women have married into every race under the sun ... without exception .. and without ..
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:53: Please Is sweetg30 only my husband gets to call my trasero sweetass.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 18, 2006, 07:59: Sweetiepie why is it a good thing that millions of irish have married into every race? Please explain. Gracias!
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 09:07: esanch36 This is a very scary comment "I dont care what you say but the man always has to be the leader, women want to be led even if they dont know it " A lot of the men I deal with think like that and you know what's the next step when women don't want to do what the leader want, beating them until they agree with them. Not my type of relationship, I prefer to talk things and come to a agreement, nobody is the boss or leader. This is the kind of attitude I was talking about it.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 18, 2006, 09:12: "Hookers, drugs" elmo who knows what you're really doing in Colombia. You're free to do with your money whatever you want. I'm not even going to bother answering you.
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alleycat says on Dec 18, 2006, 09:33: this was taken verbatim from a marriage introduction service in bogota.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 18, 2006, 09:50: you'd have to be pretty dumb to read that and believe any of it. Its what all internet bride sites say. you could easily substitute the word colombia with "china" "Russia" etc.
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 10:17: sweetg30,
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 10:35: Some PBHrs are so full of shit their eyes are brown....=) It must be nice to make up stats taken from an unknown place, and an unknown location....perhaps in some trailer park? i have personally been involved in the arrest of thousands of DV case in the one of the nations largest cities over a 27 yr period, and i would guestimate that over 90% of the cases i was involved in the male was deemed the primary agressor and arrested. And, yes, a man who beats his wife is a piece of shit AND garbage....especially ones who do it in front of the children! and when the success rate for DV prosecution is very good, its no wonder that in the publics eye men are presumed to be guilty before proven innocent...thats a no-brainer! But that is not the case in the court systems in CA.....Dont hit your wife/gf/significant other and you wont have any problems, no? If you havent met a guy whos first option would is to hit his wife, then you must have been hiding in a shelter, as it is a reality, whether you have seen it or not. Maybe you run with a better group of men, where that is not the case. And if the man is so weak in character that his loved one can push his buttons so easily with words, then that man has mental health issues. RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 10:37: BRB.....gotta go Christmas shopping!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) Just my opinion... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 10:44: Let's look at a couple of real world example: Lorena Bobbitt cut her husband's picha off for alleged infidelity. WAY out of control emotionally. Lisa "Left Eye" Lopez burned Andre Rison's $2 million mansion to the ground becuase she was unhappy in the relationship. When have you ever in your life heard of a man doing some stupid shit like that? In entertainment, within the first 15 minutes of the hit movie "Waiting to Exhale", Angela Bassett was informed that her husband was leaving her for another woman and she put all his clothes in his BMW and set the car on fire in the driveway. I distinctly remember all the women in the theatre applauding and cheering her on. Then she sold all the rest of his stuff in a garage sale for $1 each. All the women in the theatre were saying "That's right! That's what he deserves!"
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poco says on Dec 18, 2006, 10:54: Ahhh, another post I don't have time to read The question is worthwhile. In over 4 years I have yet to hear one small complaint,, not one,, of course I'm perfect and should NOT hear complaints but I have heard them from U.S. women,, ie: they BITCH a lot when their life is for all intents and purposes WONDERFUL. Colombian Chickens are crowing about the new President of the U.S. who will assure that From each according to their ability to each according to their need. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 11:04: Well I appreciate that you closed your post with "It's just my opinion" MC, because that's all it really is.
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 11:12: I believe you elmo. You can be physically abused but still have other options besides knocking her out. I've been there. But, absent those other options...
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 11:55: You see Miguel, first of all, if it's OK for a woman to cut a man's picha off, burn his house down, or even just to slap him, you're holding the woman to a lesser standard of self control than you're holding the man, which is bullshit.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:06: “Let's look at a couple of real world example: Lorena Bobbitt cut her husband's picha off for alleged infidelity. WAY out of control emotionally. Lisa "Left Eye" Lopez burned Andre Rison's $2 million mansion to the ground becuase she was unhappy in the relationship. When have you ever in your life heard of a man doing some stupid shit like that? In entertainment, within the first 15 minutes of the hit movie "Waiting to Exhale", Angela Bassett was informed that her husband was leaving her for another woman and she put all his clothes in his BMW and set the car on fire in the driveway. “ RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:09: i really need to go Xmas shopping, so will adress the other post tonight......=) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:10: Well Elmo, let's use your case as an example. What you might have done is come down on her very very hard on top of her head. Not necessarily as hard as you could, you don't want to cause any permanent damage. And not on her face or anything, because you probably don't want to leave any embarrassing marks or bruises that would be seen in public. But you DO want her to let go. If you hit her on top of her head hard enough, she'd be stunned a little bit and loosen up her bite. That's one of the two things you want. And when you do it you ask her "What's wrong with you? What are you doing?" The other thing you want is for her to remember that she can't be biting you till you bleed. She shouldn't be biting you at all, fuck that. Imagine if you had bit her. So let her know that there are consequences to that kind of behavior. Had you done that, I for one wouldn't be sitting her calling you garbage. I'd be calling you someone who had enough self respect to not let another person mutilate your body.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:17: I can understand your frustration, as i have heard it over and over again...but there is no place for DV in a civilized society... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:36: Of Course she is a troll !! Quote esanch36:
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:41: Miguel_Clavo...
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Crazy4Cali says on Dec 18, 2006, 12:44: Someome is watching me... RE Poco's comment: ie:
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 13:01: Oh and one other thing: I never hinted that killing someone was the correct choice in any of these kinds of situations. What you wrote sounds as though that's what you're accusing me of. If you've killed someone, you've gone too far.
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aztec says on Dec 18, 2006, 15:50: Just reread the origional... ...post. "I have a question, why do these men have to go to other country for a woman"
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cam0940 says on Dec 18, 2006, 16:04: Mario, that's because you've been taught that it's unacceptable and you've bought it on a gender specific basis. Had you been taught that it's not OK for either partner to resort to physical abuse on the other, that would change everything.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 19:29: Back from Xmas shopping at ! “You see Miguel, first of all, if it's OK for a woman to cut a man's picha off, burn his house down, or even just to slap him, you're holding the woman to a lesser standard of self control than you're holding the man, which is bullshit.” RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 19:33: G5 gets crossed off my Christmas list this year! "But, Clavo carved out a new definition of a troll (an incorrect one) and said she is not." RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 19:47: Just finished dinner...... “I read each line of your response. I've come to the conclusion that A) You know nothing about me, since you're trying to reduce everything I said to media and fiction and whatever else you said.” RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 18, 2006, 19:52: Clavo It's too easy to rattle your cage. It is the one way I know for sure that even when I'm not posting for a month, you will still find a way to drag my name into a thread somewhere. I know I know, I shouldn't flatter myself. Nonetheless, it's true.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 19:55: Dessert was excellent! “Oh and one other thing: I never hinted that killing someone was the correct choice in any of these kinds of situations. What you wrote sounds as though that's what you're accusing me of. If you've killed someone, you've gone too far. RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 18, 2006, 19:59: Poco has the right idea: Find 'em, f*ck 'em, forget 'em. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:04: G5....definitely not rattled...i have the patience of Job...=) consider it my Xmas contribution to DV victims of both sexes....=) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:06: I am starting to feel like Stobers when he was b-slapping our favorite barrister in a discussion on domestic politics......;) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:08: friend of mine Friend of mine go hit with a hot plate of food and cafe'in the face; he knock her down and bruised her up pretty good.He went to jail and she told everybod he was a cowardly wife beater,because of his past no one wanted to hear his side of the story .She never talk to him again, got the house, money and he was out on his ass on the streets. anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:16: Need to run to the store for some Coronas and limes....BRB Just my opinion... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:23: Was your lawyer G5., Mario? i will be the first one to admit the criminal justice system in CA needs revamping.....Cops were the most vocal against the DV laws because originally, the victims complaint of pain, and not visible injuries was all that was needed...and it did not take a brain surgeon to predict the abuses.....DV laws were not popular with cops because of the potential abuses, and thier discretion was removed. But on the other hand, the cycle of violence had to be broken, as more and more people were being killed by their spouses.... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:25: I was starting to think I missed pbh tonight, but then... I logged in for a moment. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:44: But in CA, the discretion has been removed, as in your case the PA would be the female. and in a restaurant there should be some witnesses possibly....the female would have gone to jail, IMHO....but remember, that the cop doesnt write the law, he job is to enforce it per the legislature with judicial oversight.... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 20:59: i have a friend who is a cop (wma43), he went to Cali and found a hot Calena...he thought he did his homework to prevent a citizenship chaser. Married her, and lived together for 1 1/2 yrs....she has her green card. His mistake was he only really wanted to get a hot housekeeper while he played cop for the work benefits, and played in his rock band for fun. He treated her like she was just a maid, and she took offense to it. Oh, he did his pre-nup the right way, but failed to videotape the entire meeting. Well, things were not going well, and somehow she got a black eye! His version: she did it to herself, while planning on divorcing him asap AFTER getting her green card. Using the federal DV law, she is now able to petition for citizenship by herself, and the wait for citizenship is decreased by 2 years (?) i believe..... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 21:00: G5..btw....after New Years, my resolution is to be a kindler, and gentler PBHr! =) so i will go easy on you next year! =) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 18, 2006, 21:27: Anyway you look at it, Mario, it is the wiser choice!!! Just my opinion... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 18, 2006, 23:31: one problem Some women have a tendercy to get an equilizer like a knife or a gun; speaking from experiences. It's like a wise guy movie, u wake up to gun pointed at your head. anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Dec 18, 2006, 23:37: Rubito you are right about that. Guys are stronger, have bigger muscles, longer reach in general. Shut up and walk out. Arguing with anybody out of control is just plain stupid. Now if you happen to care about this other person (male or female) it's even more important to take that walk. I can't imagine myself in cam's position listening and putting up to constant harassment and harping days in and days out; I just wouldn't be around for that. I'd think that I was definitely married to a wrong person. A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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gringolondinense says on Dec 19, 2006, 03:08: I agree with Cam.... Everyone has a threshold. If youre pushed too far, as nice a person as you might be, you might have a moment of madness and do something in that split second. "Temporary insanity" does exist.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 19, 2006, 03:13: by the way Desi saying "shut up and walk out" is easily said. Some women will be physical and stop the guy "walking out". They will bolt/ lock the door, grab your clothes / hair. The only way to "walk out" is get physical with the girl and push her out of the way (if you can). But then thats assault.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 19, 2006, 03:14: Check out that film "Misery" based on the book by Stephen King. The woman breaks the guy's ankles with a sledgehammer to stop him leaving her. lol!!
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 07:32: GL My question would be why would you or anyone (male or female) remain in an abusive relationship? one where you will get harrassed 24/7, or pushed to your so-called "limit" of "temporary insanity"? doesnt sound like it is working to me. Time to bail, if you ask me. The alternative is to batter the person when you reached your personal boiling point, then its time to do the jailhouse rock, right? Better to get out a relationship before it explodes, and much cheaper $$. RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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gringolondinense says on Dec 19, 2006, 07:46: actually I didnt say the alternative is to batter the girl. I said push her out the way. Im saying that a guy might push the girl and she might fall or something and do some damage.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 08:07: if you push a person, male or female,and he/she falls & injures himself/herself, that is also battery.....bollocks.... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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gringolondinense says on Dec 19, 2006, 08:20: oh ok so.... you should just stay in the house like a lemon and remain there till your girl lets you out. Nice one. Obviously you need a reality check (deleted).
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 08:37: yes, and you are obviously a fine specimen of an intelligent man you shouldnt participate in thread about DV when obviously you know nothing about it...it must be playtime at your childcare school, no?.....toodles!! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 08:39: Please, GL, give me a reality check, please, please, please!! Just my opinion... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 08:49: And please dont be so insensitive to my feelings, Machoman....=( jajajajjajaja..... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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podborski says on Dec 19, 2006, 09:27: when Lorena Bobbit mutilated her husband for whatever he did, the response was 'you go girl'. She had lots of public support.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 09:40: Yup, shit happens when you abuse your spouse...moral of story: dont abuse your spouse, or get the F out of that relationship...funny you mention it, i actually met that JW Bobbit guy one time..after his "accident" he toured the country as a "celebrity" to help raise $$ for his "repair job"...his PR angle was that he might show his NotSoBigAnyMore organ to the paying gawkers....my friends and i were paid to provide security for his event..he never did show that badboy, obviously, as there are laws against that in CA...... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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vicshere says on Dec 19, 2006, 09:47: man talk about a thread gone stupid......this is has gone insane.....don't you people have better thing to talk about....I am embarrassed to even be typing on this thread.....
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podborski says on Dec 19, 2006, 09:53: I'm sure Bobbit was no prize but as you say m-c, it's the public attitude that bugs me. I have no doubt men are more violent than women, but two wrongs don't make a right.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 10:26: I hear ya......sometimes i have no sympathy for the men who do abuse their wives, and then get their asses kicked or worse by the "little lady"....there are alot of legitimate abuse cases....buti have been involved in the other side as well....my very first arrest as a new cop for DV involved a 250 lb woman who slapped the dogshit out of her 110 lb husband, all over which TV channel to watch! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 19, 2006, 10:37: But i would rather be singing "Vamos a la playa" by the band Righeira than "Vamos a la pinta" by myself! (la pinta is Mexican slang for the jail...home to many homeys!) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ed_norton says on Dec 19, 2006, 10:38: gomezman5 i used to be a hall monitor too.
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ed_norton says on Dec 19, 2006, 10:47: mario.............what's up with the violence? i think gomezman5 is right about you.
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ed_norton says on Dec 19, 2006, 10:52: where's all the love in this room? american women are infinitely'less" desiarable than colombiana's.
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alleycat says on Dec 19, 2006, 19:34: huh? "american women are infinitely'less" desiarable than colombiana's"
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goin_south says on Dec 19, 2006, 21:33: "...seen tara conner recently? .... talk about good-looking and feisty to boot. never seen a colombiana this pretty and sexy." nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 19, 2006, 21:36: Hey, I've been busy the last few days; what happened to all of Sweetg_30's posts? ya'll ran her back into the Roosevelt Square? nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 19, 2006, 21:41: I'm with ya Vic..shere! ".....don't you people have better thing to talk about....??" nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 19, 2006, 22:35: i think sweetgangster30 a ella esta aburrida con todo el mondo y a ella quiere deshacerse de usteds anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jinksmiester says on Dec 19, 2006, 23:04: why not find a great lady in colombia? colombia..one of the lowest divorce rates on the planet...(i guess they take there marraige vows more serious that north american woman and men).they treat there men good...and from what i can see they have very good morals and family values....not to mention colombian woman...(most)are beautiful...inside and out... A man is not old until regret takes the place of dreams 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 19, 2006, 23:18: I agree with you about alot of things, jinksmiester, but there's just as much of the same 'let's move upscale' attitude in Colombia, I think, too. Who doesn't? Everywhere, everyone wants to live a more comfortable life of convenience, and many are willing to jump from one boat to another, to do it. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jinksmiester says on Dec 20, 2006, 00:30: in all relatioships there is a chance it will not succeed..lets face it there are bound to be problems ..nothing is perfect...having said that i love and trust my wife and bieng married to her is the only way we will ever be together as immigration canada would never let her in this country unless she is my wife...there is a slight (very slight)possibilty she may have been allowed to come here for a period of time under what canada calls a conjugual relationship...but that would mean applying and waiting about a year...perhaps more..and likley they would have refused it...unlike the u.s. there is no such thing as a fiancee visa.we did not have the option of just living together ...if we had that it would have been fine with me...im not religious and i see nothing wrong with that...and i don,t think wearing a ring makes things any different(not these days)...hounor and commitment has to come from who you are...the ring means jackshit without the that. A man is not old until regret takes the place of dreams 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 04:58: Elmo, no se que decirte querido Pero me imagino que debe existir una colombian o cualquiera mujer dispuesta a pasar el tiempo contigo sin tener necesidad de que le pagues. pero yo no estoy en tus zapatos.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 04:59: Gringolondinese, I've seen those pic's too It's kind of scary.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 05:05: Cam0940, Something tells me your wife/girlfriend, special friend would have something to say about that, I don't think when a 5'1, 100 pounds woman, gets hit by her 6'0, 250 pounds husband to the point she has to be hospitilized and is her fault. But according to you is, believe me I really don't care for your comments, I never argue with the abuser, in this case you.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 05:08: Thank you, Miguel Clavo I found a real man, a man that's not scare of a woman and that tells it like it's.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 05:26: I'm in shock "don't want to leave any embarrassing marks or bruises that would be seen in public." You seem to have a lot of experience and knowledge about DV behavior.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 06:29: Guys one more thing in case you don't know this, real abusers don't need to have excuses to hit their wifes/girlfriends/significant other, and these women selfsteem is so low and are so scared that won't try to defend themselves or try to call for help. They know better, all they try to do is avoid confrontation and try not to get their husband,boyfriend, significant other angry but what they don't know is that it doesn't matter what they do or don't do, these men like to abuse women. They wont try to fight another man because they know they might risk getting their ass kick, the woman is a safer choice. Most of these men never change and that's what the "victims" need to understand before they end up dead. And it gets more complicated if they have kids, I've seen some pretty graphic pic's and I'm not talking about black eyes, I'm talking about woman and her two kids decapitated and I could keep on going on. Some of you have very good points, women do get arrested too for DV but not as much as men.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 06:37: If you are in an abusive relationship Why would you stay? good question, women sometime think there's no way out and they're so scared for their life that they think no matter where they go the abuser will find them, they decide to stay. Others are used to that kind of behavior because their father was an abuser, they think is normal.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 06:42: This was a long time ago I once got into an argument with un costeño,that tried to hit me, I had a book and hit him so hard that I broke his mouth,after that his brother took him away and I though about calling the cops on him, I was with my mom and my little brother, good thing I didn't because I would got arrested. By the way that same guy use to hit his wife and she was there, telling him to hit me.
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podborski says on Dec 20, 2006, 07:20: I know these abused women have huge problems but it is VERY hard for someone like me to understand how you don't just walk away from it. I know you could tell me a thousand reasons why not, but I have yet to hear one that makes sense to me.
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sweetg30 says on Dec 20, 2006, 07:47: If I feel that's the only way to get rid of him/her i might do it, these women are too scared and it's not about revenge in most cases is about true fear for their lives and their kids lives. Some of these men would go after their wife and kill her and her kids or kill the kids just to teach her a lesson. Most of these women were weak and with selfesteem problems before they got into this type of relationships, If you're an abuser you're not going to get with me, because I'll cut your balls off and eat them for breakfast if you try that hitting crap on me or my kid, I'm half joking, but there are signs for these kind of behavior before the abuse starts. I have three friends(non job related, this is way before I work with DV) that explained to me that they felt like they were in a black hole and there was no way out. They got hit in the street in front of their kids and they felt worthless. DV is very complicated.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 20, 2006, 07:53: we can just ask George Bush to launch "Operation: Infininte Justice (Part II): The Reprise". This will clear up any crime, since everyone will be dead. Amen.
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ed_norton says on Dec 20, 2006, 10:53: i thought the topic here was "why american men need foreign wome american women have become too masculine and their values and domesticity has become virtually non existant.they have lost all innocence and forgot that the simple things in life are always the best.
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podborski says on Dec 20, 2006, 12:38: yeah we are way off topic huh? I think there are some great women in NA, how could there not be, but my complaint is that it is so hard to meet them, for whatever reasons. Things definitely became more difficult (in Canada at least) over the last 15 years. I just don't think it helps to have a culture where smiling at a woman is considered 'leering' unless you happen to look like Brad Pitt.
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alleycat says on Dec 20, 2006, 13:05: i don't know about canada but in the u.s. you just have to be patient and you'll find someone you like. you mention brad pitt. if you're chasing women who want someone with exceptional looks like pitt, and you are more average, obviously you're going to have trouble. does anybody really believe that women from CA or SA don't rank looks high on their wish list? they're just like women from NA. regarding materialism; there's plenty of women who value other things far more than consumerism but you have to look in the right places. start with intellectual and artistic women. i will say this about emphasis upon money: more of the recent generation of u.s. women highly value earning capacity. i've noticed this has changed pretty significantly in just a generation. you have to, however, just look harder. i know it's easier to hop on a plane and seek out someone living in relative desperation.
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Crazy4Cali says on Dec 20, 2006, 18:52: desperate...but not serious Yet another person who believes that everyone who lives south of the border is "living in desperation."
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 20, 2006, 18:57: All I can say is: Go BEARS !
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 20, 2006, 19:50: G5......its only bear-ly a hijacking!! =) oh shit, my 21.5 hours on PBH is up!!!! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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alleycat says on Dec 20, 2006, 19:56: i've always wondered if all these guys who dislike american women have mothers, sisters, daughters, etc. must make for some awkward and tense moments. lol
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goin_south says on Dec 20, 2006, 21:41: Mario, did you maybe mean: No 'Contraceptive Continuity'? lol nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 20, 2006, 21:48: Alleycat.......now it all makes sense For years I've wondered why I don't like my sister. Now I know, it's becasue she is American. Damn....to think it was simple as that. And I thought it was some deep psychosis that only Clavo would understand/
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goin_south says on Dec 20, 2006, 21:51: Si, Alleycat.... . nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 20, 2006, 21:52: Si, Alleycat.... ..sorry for the triple post nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 20, 2006, 21:53: Si, Alleycat.... neurotic mother.. who never stops talking... (and isn't even Jewish/Italian.) nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 20, 2006, 22:53: Naw, G5, its the hereditary gene pool that you dont like!...=) And i can certainly understand that! i bet she could enlighten us about you! Maybe explain a few thing relative to your postings, no??? =) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 21, 2006, 07:52: weird family "neurotic mother.. who never stops talking... (and isn't even Jewish.)"I didn't know Jewish people like to talk a lot, that explains why my husband talks non stop.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 21, 2006, 08:03: hahah sweetg!! that was a great uppercut! :-). Get those claws out
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gringolondinense says on Dec 21, 2006, 08:26: Hahhah! ok i wont hahah! you just have a great way of "stimulating converstation" lol! :-)
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sweetg30 says on Dec 21, 2006, 08:32: I'll take that as a compliment mi abuelo siempre me dice que sea una aboagada, por que si no las gano las empato o si no las embolato, pero la cosa es que nunca pierdo.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 21, 2006, 08:44: hahaha... well thats cute! I know you dont back down that easily lol!!!
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sweetg30 says on Dec 21, 2006, 09:05: No I don't People don't think by looking at me that I can be such a "troublemaker" I always get the "oh you're so sweet and nice" and inside me, I'm laughing and thinking: if you only knew, the kind of devil you're dealing with, you will run lol
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sweetg30 says on Dec 21, 2006, 09:34: Morphus, I have plenty of pic's But I don't give out my pic anymore, I'm done with that. My husband wouldn't like me sharing my pic in the Internet. I was out with him one time when we begging dating and some weird guy came over to the table and asked: are you sweetg? wow, you're Colombian right? and I had to hear the you look like your pic crap and I didn't want to interrupt, while my date was sitting there looking at me. So I don't give out my pic, I don't want you to recognize me in the street and interrupt my meal.
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gringolondinense says on Dec 21, 2006, 09:39: post one with the face cut out! lol!
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goin_south says on Dec 21, 2006, 17:11: Sweetg_30something, YOU ARE RIGHT AGAIN: I stopped giving her excess cash, nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 21, 2006, 17:21: Hey, Sweet you better stop; if this thread gets much longer, it's going to be in the running for 'longest thread ever', and SOME ONE POSTER isn't going to like that, and you'll wake up one morning and PUFFFFF! It'll be gone! nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 21, 2006, 17:24: Let's talk about Colombia... and water falls, ... Leticia, and Pink Dolphins; Pasto, Laguna de la Coche, and Vulcan Galeras. The lost city. Emeralds and Gold. Festival of the week. Old Colonial Cartagena. Bogota and Botero. Gettin your hambone boiled in Barranquilla! Popayan/the White City. A B and Mountain-Biking the Andes. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jay1234 says on Dec 21, 2006, 17:57: Response to OP Go Spurs, Go!!! Ooops, sorry, got into highjacking for a minute...the reason we have to go to other countries is that our beautiful babies are too lazy or otherwise unable to get here without our help.
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goin_south says on Dec 21, 2006, 18:31: Hay jay... head 'em up, move em out, ride em in... nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 21, 2006, 20:26: what is the most entries recorded on a thread anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 21, 2006, 21:02: not sure, elchantajista but, I think Arthur B has the most 'ENTREES' on a thread. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jay1234 says on Dec 22, 2006, 08:21: Let's support sweetg in getting longest thread... galecito- Come on, my man! The Hornets? They are only 9 games behind SA...and it's an away game, which is good for us...watch Ellson put the smack down...oh, and to keep the thread police off of me...uhmmm...sweetg, isn't it sexist to only complain about men who go to other countries? Why give the ladies a free pass on finding foreign mates? Shouldn't part of the question address why foreign women (aside from gold diggers/visa chasers) are interested in gringos who come to their country?
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sweetg30 says on Dec 22, 2006, 19:11: hahaha very funny galecito galecito el graciosito, if one day the poster is gone, what can you do,that's life
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sweetg30 says on Dec 22, 2006, 19:14: fair question jay1234 I guess they're tired of dealing with the bulls** of many men and decide to give a try to the gringos.
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famsearch says on Dec 22, 2006, 19:17: what about those mets? just doing my part to keep the thread going... lol dan 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sweetg30 says on Dec 22, 2006, 19:17: mario 250 or more were written by him que malo que eres but thanks for supportting my lost cause
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aztec says on Dec 22, 2006, 19:29: A man would have to be... ...stupid to continue to look for a relationship with North American women. The only reason is that they don't know any better.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 22, 2006, 19:51: Everyone here (for the most part, i hope!) is aware of Red Flags for the Colombiana wishing to come to the US "for all the wrong reasons", etc....but what advice would you give to a Colombiana who is a good friend, or relative, regarding the Red Flags to look out for in a Gringo??? RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 22, 2006, 20:52: oye sweet Talked to my lil colmbiana last night and she's ready to come back and stay with me, I guess it's true what they say; let'em go and if they come back it was meant to be, we never did really stopped seeing each other but it was long distance and I didn't really care for that, she gettig rid of a situation and then maybe????????? I've got 21/2 years invested in this girl so, not to mention on hell of a rollercoaster ride of emotions lol but i guess that happens when u care for a super hottie, don't have to mess with a visa and all that she has her mica and all her papers. anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 22, 2006, 21:00: and, 'gringodiego' wrote another 20, 30, or so... that were deleted, when 'he' was deleted, thereby shortening the 'longest thread ever'. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 22, 2006, 21:00: Clarify, famsearch! You mean: LOS METROPOLITANOS! nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 22, 2006, 21:01: de DOS CIUDADES MISMOS "Tengo mucha compasión para el loro." nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 22, 2006, 21:47: why did gringo diego get launched? i was too busy for about 3 months to post here, so it must of happened when i was misbehavin myself....jajaj... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 22, 2006, 22:04: please, M_C.....'gringodiego' I think he told someone, maybe el martillo, to 'go F*** himself' in succession, 3x's in a row, after el martillo was babbling endlessly on into oblivion about how .... nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elchantajista says on Dec 23, 2006, 02:59: sancho como se llama un hombre que es un sancho en Colombia, hay otro palabra o es la misma cosa anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Dec 23, 2006, 03:15: Welcome to Gas Town Yea I said it. Gas Town because there is a lot of hot air being thrown areound on this thread.
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elchantajista says on Dec 23, 2006, 03:17: echando piropo o dichos para recojer una colombiana favorite pick up lines and street compliments for our lovely colombianas por ejemplo anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 23, 2006, 09:25: Sounds to me like Chicago is Gas Town...for at least 1 reason that i know of....G Town...must be the G in it or something....=) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 23, 2006, 09:28: Hey, Galecito, isnt El Martillo one of those plastic Toys-R-Us childrens play tools?? the one that when you strike an object with it, it makes that "toootin" sound???? =) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Dec 23, 2006, 11:18: penso que 'el martillo' esta poco celoso de dulcita30 "Tengo mucha compasión para el loro verde." nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jay1234 says on Dec 23, 2006, 12:11: Merry Christmas to all those who.... go to other country for....burra (Didn't want elmo to feel left out).
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goin_south says on Dec 23, 2006, 18:56: "Also, If anyone is going to stretch this thread out.... " Gomezman5,...do you go to other country for...woman? We've never really heard so much about this, except for those,...what were they called? wiskerias? We've never heard, otherwise. Is the G5 married? Been married? to Colombiana? never? Mejicana? Otro? nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 23, 2006, 19:47: there ya go again....worrying about the sex life of others, probably because all you get is the leftovers...i like women too much...assexual maybe!..hahahah...are are you homophobic morphie? most juicers are....=) but studies have shown that excessive weightlifting deadens the braincells, and represses true, shall i say, alternative lifestyles....in simple terms, they go out of their way to convince people that they are soooo manly, just to cover up the real inner self....sound familiar? RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 23, 2006, 19:50: anyway, nice chatting with ya Morhp..its 8pm here in CA and time to go have a nice dinner, some Coronas, and to be mysterious.......hahahhaa...cya! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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scotty says on Jun 21, 2007, 02:59: Before the thread went crazy I think the question posed was why do men HAVE to go to Colombia/SA to find a wife, or something to that effect. Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jun 27, 2007, 18:26: I have a question: nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jun 27, 2007, 18:28: And, why did peter edit out the videos? nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 27, 2007, 18:30: you trying to get this thread to beat G5's futbol one in # of posts???? jajajjajaj....how was your trip? any sightings of ColombiaMikeee? RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jun 28, 2007, 00:03: jajaaaa....I think now you are Col_Mike. in reverse, eh? M_C...C_M. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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manINred says on Jun 28, 2007, 09:52: People go all over the place to find partners that they like.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 28, 2007, 11:14: 47 more to beat the Futbol post...jajajja.......and what an appropriate topic, too! jajajjaja RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Jun 28, 2007, 12:36: Nope, Miguel, that's not him, A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 28, 2007, 12:45: damn.....back to detective school...i thought the "bashitos para Desi" was CM.....we know he is fond of you.....=) RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Jun 28, 2007, 13:09: Nope, that was another friend of mine:) from another forum posting under the same handle as always. A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jul 15, 2007, 00:01: Why do Gringos go to Colombia to chase Latinas. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jul 15, 2007, 00:03: Why do Gringos go to Colombia to chase Latinas. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jul 15, 2007, 00:59: hey, maybe Vup=Sweetg30??? Sweetg30 stopped posting about the same time mikee started.....hmmmmmmm......very suspicious, i say! RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jul 15, 2007, 01:19: ""Don't generalize I thought you had already addressed this topic in another thread."" nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jul 15, 2007, 01:57: i have been here about a year and a half, and i am sure it was discussed since the 1998 when this site was started or so.....and if you were to go to those pervert mongering sites, it has been discussed continuously ad nauseum...... RVW orderded me to remove my tagline congratulating the PBH Mods New Golden Boys. Lame. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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bogjudge says on Aug 5, 2007, 15:48: Why? Why not? "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -- Mark Twain 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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RussianFred says on Aug 24, 2007, 11:04: It's cheaper that then the USA and Europe. Annual Drug Deaths: Tobacco: 395,000, Alcohol: 125,000, 'Legal' Drugs: 38,000, Illegal Drug Overdoses: 5,200, Marijuana: 0. Considering government subsidies of tobacco, just what is our government protecting us from in the drug war?--Ralph Nader 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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gold digger says on Sep 2, 2007, 10:55: South American women are still feminine. I asked one of my girlfriends (USA) why she didn't wear dresses or skirts and she got pissed off at me. ???
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goin_south says on Sep 2, 2007, 12:11: g d.... you rent a BMW, in Colombia? nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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RussianFred says on Sep 2, 2007, 15:59: Women are basicly the same all over the world. The golddiggers in South America want a nice home. Where as in America they want the home, benz and money. My last marriage was three years. I paid all the bills, a mortgage of 6k, and had 4 cars. My ex-wife said I did nothing for her that no other man wouldn't do! She is now living in an apartment. American women are more materialistic because o the media and the culture. "I want it all now!" Annual Drug Deaths: Tobacco: 395,000, Alcohol: 125,000, 'Legal' Drugs: 38,000, Illegal Drug Overdoses: 5,200, Marijuana: 0. Considering government subsidies of tobacco, just what is our government protecting us from in the drug war?--Ralph Nader 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Sep 2, 2007, 22:57: ...that wasn't what I asked. nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Sep 2, 2007, 22:59: or, maybe: nothin I say is to be takn for my words, but rather for the words of Sailor Jerry. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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